When you form bonds with people, be it classmates, peers, colleagues, what have you, what is it that you seek to gain from it? Why do you make friends, or reach out to people? Why do you interact with people, like here, on this forum? What is your endgoal you have in mind for it? What is the purpose of putting so much time and effort into a relationship with other people?
427.375 days ago
Mar 29, 2022 - 6:59 PM
there's nothing to gain, it's a waste of time
427.357 days ago
Mar 29, 2022 - 7:26 PM
Then why do you use this forum?
427.349 days ago
Mar 29, 2022 - 7:37 PM
I want erbody to be like there goes that man. There he goes.
427.336 days ago
Mar 29, 2022 - 7:56 PM
I expect to gain collateral damage of my emotions from being ț̷͕͕͂̓r̴͕͕̗̈̈́̓̂ả̸̡̮̯͇̲̫̖̑͒͝p̸̧̘̈́̕p̶̠̈́̔̌̓͋ė̸̞͍̱ḓ̶̑̈̄͆̕ ̶̛͌͊͒̾̏ͅi̵̖̗̗̍͌̓̋͝͝n̷͎̯̝͍̉̍ͅs̸̛͇̹̄̈ị̵̡̩̰̰̲̾̑̃̀͒̚͠d̸̢̛͚̞̪̖̺̬͗͑̑͛͑̚e̵̹͚̥̐̓̔̀̓͋ ̵͓̓t̴̊͘h̶̘̾̍̇̂͐͒̈́i̵͍̅̅͆͛s̸̘̥̰͉̺̩̥̊͌̂̎͐̚̕ ̴̛͙̦̺̰̞̇̍̀̿͜͠͠ͅb̷͙̾͊͊o̵̢̗̬̭̓͒ď̷͍̬̦͉̱̞̮̔̕ȳ̴̪͔̼̈́̋̾̆͊
427.326 days ago
Mar 29, 2022 - 8:10 PM
being lonely doesnt feel good
427.296 days ago
Mar 29, 2022 - 8:53 PM
Then why do you use this forum?
what stripes said, also because stripes told me to use it
427.296 days ago
Mar 29, 2022 - 8:53 PM
Bro you literally have, like, 1.5x the post count stripes does.
What emotional need is being met by interacting with people?
427.163 days ago
Mar 30, 2022 - 12:04 AM
well loneliness i guess but its kind of not worth it in the long run but also it's hard to live with it, idk how to explain
actually no, i don't care about loneliness, i just like to feel better about myself
427.162 days ago
Mar 30, 2022 - 12:07 AM
bug, as a human being, you need to have interactions with other human beings.
427.16 days ago
Mar 30, 2022 - 12:08 AM
427.16 days ago
Mar 30, 2022 - 12:09 AM
because as a hermit, your mental health will slowly but steadily decline and decline until you go crazy
427.159 days ago
Mar 30, 2022 - 12:10 AM
yeah but why would that happen
427.158 days ago
Mar 30, 2022 - 12:11 AM
humans are social creatures and are programmed with an innate desire for connection
427.143 days ago
Mar 30, 2022 - 12:33 AM
427.14 days ago
Mar 30, 2022 - 12:37 AM
well, more like, early humans who got along well with other humans survived better and were better able to pass down their genes
therefore the natural progression made us desire to be accepted socially so we could better be alive
427.139 days ago
Mar 30, 2022 - 12:39 AM
so it doesn't apply to me then, because i don't care
427.139 days ago
Mar 30, 2022 - 12:39 AM
well, you're descended from those very same humans
unless you have some latent aspd i'm not aware of
427.137 days ago
Mar 30, 2022 - 12:42 AM
so it doesn't apply to me then, because i don't care
i like having you around. don't you feel the same way?
427.137 days ago
Mar 30, 2022 - 12:43 AM
i dont know how to answer that
427.134 days ago
Mar 30, 2022 - 12:46 AM
I like understanding other people better and also feeling understood myself. I like knowing that I might be making someone else's life a little bit better.
422.187 days ago
Apr 3, 2022 - 11:30 PM
I'm sure more than 50% of the people that know you feel that way about you, so you're doing ok.
422.16 days ago
Apr 4, 2022 - 12:08 AM
We're all here occupying this Earth for a short while. We might as well make someone feel better while we're here.
422.111 days ago
Apr 4, 2022 - 1:19 AM
i regret typing that n idk how to delete
421.3 days ago
Apr 4, 2022 - 8:48 PM
When you form bonds with people, be it classmates, peers, colleagues, what have you, what is it that you seek to gain from it? Why do you make friends, or reach out to people? Why do you interact with people, like here, on this forum? What is your endgoal you have in mind for it? What is the purpose of putting so much time and effort into a relationship with other people?
First question: I don’t go into it seeking anything in particular.
Second question: someone to talk to plus solitude is painful.
Third question: people to talk to.
Fourth: no end goal.
Last question: who cares?
Really the answer is just it’s nice to talk to friendly people. I mean I talk to strangers in public all the time. Yesterday I chatted with a guy while he was pissing in a Gatorade bottle about how it sucks the laundromat we were at only had one bathroom and that the manager locks it when she leaves at 5pm then I just started listening to him tell me about how raising his kid has been going.
420.431 days ago
Apr 5, 2022 - 5:39 PM
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